Sunday, November 18, 2012

Race, Race Everywhere, and Plenty of Kool-Aid to Drink



               I keep seeing this theme over and over again on television,  on the internet and on radio. Every time there's a meaningful discussion about the state of our nation on the rise. someone cries "RACISM!" and the whole conversation gets upended and thrown by the wayside. I heard a man on the radio last night say that it's fine to disagree with President Obama's policies, but people who criticize him are racists. If that makes sense to you, then you might as well close this page and find something else to do today. I'm looking for the people who hear such a statement and think, "That doesn't make any damn sense." Those people have common sense and will be able to relate to my frustration. I'm gonna start out with some Q & A to get the thinking juices flowing (and yes I get to ask the questions AND answer them):

-Has racism magically disappeared? 
NO, and if you think it has you're lying to yourself.

-Are there absolutely no racist people left in America? 
NO, certainly not, and I wouldn't argue otherwise.

-Does being white make you a racist? 
NO.

-Does being a minority make you non-racist? 
NO.

-Is there a systematic attempt by Republicans to oppress minorities? 
NO, regardless of what the left says.

-Is there a systematic attempt by Democrats to oppress whites?
NO, regardless of what the right says.

-Does criticizing Barack Obama make you a racist? 
NO, and neither does voting against him.

-Does supporting Barack Obama make you a racist? 
NO, and neither does voting for him.

-Was it racist for people to criticize George W. Bush's every move? 
NO, it was political, ideological or because you see things differently.

-Is it racist for people to criticize President Obama's every move? 

NO, it was political, ideological or because you see things differently.


-Is it racist to criticize Ambassador Rice for her statements in the wake of the Benghazi debacle?

NO, it was political, ideological or because you see things differently.


-Do the terms "food stamps," "welfare," "poor" and "uneducated" secretly mean "black" or "minority"? 
NO. And if you assume that they do, then YOU are the racist.

-Do the terms "rich," "wealthy," "articulate," or " "self-reliant" mean "white"?                                             
NO. And if you assume that they do, then YOU are the racist.

-Is it OK to actively seek out racism in all things every day in an effort to make people feel guilty for no reason or simply make your own opinions seems relevant? 
NO, and this my friend's is one of the biggest racial issues in America today, yet it gets no discussion time on ANY news show I've seen.

               Racism is not extinct. It is certainly still present in America today. However, this is not the 1800s or the 1960s. Racism is not a government sponsored oppression. It is not a daily, bloody, deadly battle the way it was in days past. As a society, it took us far too long to realize the immorality of slavery and discrimination. It took us far too long to come to begin judging all people by the content of their character rather than the color of their skin. Yes, I said "begin". Admittedly, we are not where we should be where race and discrimination is concerned, but the reasons for this ugly truth are not those that many would have us believe. From my standpoint, I can see two types of racism that exist in contemporary America: intolerant/discriminatory racism, and constructed/invented racism. One exists in small groups, the other is actually quite rampant, and the motivations behind the two are quite different. One is perpetuated by individuals, and sometimes groups (like the KKK and other supremacist groups) out of ignorance, fear, hate and intolerance. The other is generated by those who rely on it to survive in an increasingly less race-obsessed world (the Al Sharptons and Jessie Jacksons of the world). 

               Some people are inherently intolerant for no reason at all, at least none that makes any sense to people with brains. Some people are molded into intolerance. Some people in the world, and yes, here in America, simply hate. They hate out of fear or ignorance or even curiosity about the unknown. These people are toxic to the world. They refuse to realize how dumb they really are and they will never come to grips with the fact that we are all people, all human beings. They are never going to magically come to the good side and stop hating people based on arbitrary physical characteristics. These people are either born with the inclination to hate, or more commonly, they are groomed into hatred by parents, friends or other influential individuals. This type of racism is vile, stupid, un-American and unfortunately in most cases it's terminal (much like stupidity). The good news is, with each generation being taught to treat others as equals, and to reject blind, arbitrary hatred and discrimination, those kinds of wastes of space are being squeezed out over time. If we continue to champion equality and expose the ignorance of this type of racism, it will one day become fully extinct in America, just as slavery has. We should never choose to "accept" this racism, but we should not pretend that it can be remedied by commercials and after school programs, at least not over night. People are going to be stupid and hateful, the key is to treat is as the EXCEPTION to the norm, and to make these types of racists feel like outcasts every chance we get.

               The second type of racism we see in our society is both more frequent, and much more dangerous. Every day, we are confronted with examples of people using racism as a crutch. Now, I'm not referring to using it as a foot in the door or a way out of trouble, though if we pretend this does not happen we are delusional. Using race (or gender, religion etc.) as a means of forcing others to do as you want or be labeled a bigot, is reprehensible and vile. But as I said, when I refer to the "crutch" of racism, I'm actually talking about people who look for, perpetuate and even invent instances of racism, in order to incite outrage among the people, and to make themselves seem relevant. Look at people like Al Sharpton, Jessie Jackson and even MSNBC's Chris Matthews. How often do you see these guys on television raving about race, race, race. Everything is of, about and because of race. Hell, Chris Matthews has taken it upon himself to create a new dictionary that defines all racist words and phrases (spoiler alert: it's just Webster's dictionary with every definition beginning "When Republicans use this word it is racist because...). It's one thing to draw attention to and demagogue instances of racism. I'm all for that (and that door should swing both ways when whites are discriminated against for being white). However, when people invent racism to perpetuate an agenda or just their own career, it's deplorable. Take for instance, the new theme of calling Republicans, or anyone for that matter, racists for simply using terms like "food stamps" or "welfare". I've spent some time thinking this over, and for the life of me I can't figure out why it's racist to use the GIVEN NAME for social programs, so all I have to go on is what people have said. One argument I've heard is that when people say there are 15 million more people on food stamps under Obama, what they really mean is that millions of black people are on food stamps and that makes them lazy and worthless, and therefore pointing out the increase in Americans on food stamps is racist. I hate to be Captain Obvious here, but is it really so hard for these people to understand that the food stamp program is a social program that is meant to temporarily help struggling families make ends meet, and that we now have 15 million more people utilizing this under our current president? It's not racist, it's simply a fact. And in all fairness, if your hear "food stamps" and assume "black people," then I hate to break it to you pal, but YOU are the racist. The same goes for "welfare." It is in no way racist to point to an increase in the number of Americans on welfare as a failure on the part of a president. It is in no way racist to point out that it is better for Americans to be independent and self reliant than to be on welfare. For anyone to hear "welfare" and somehow  come to the conclusion that welfare is an acceptable way of life, AND that it's racist to draw attention to the growing number of people using it, is simply asinine. We were meant to be free, independent, self reliant people. Asserting that too many people are utilizing food stamps and welfare is not racist. I'll even go so far as to say, asserting that abusing these programs is indicative of laziness and dependency is not racist. What IS racist is saying things like "black people are lazy," "minorities are lazy." or "only blacks and minorities get welfare and food stamps." You cannot assume that anyone advocating for more self reliant people and fewer dependent on the government is racist. You cannot assume that anyone who supports freedom and independence from government hand outs is perpetuating racism. However, people who seek out racism to the point that they can find it in, quite literally, ANYTHING ANYONE SAYS is indicative of either a true racist that wants revenge of some kind against others, or an individual that wishes to be seen as a defender of the offended, and the protector of the abused. Either way, it's bad for Americans when people look to manifest racism where it actually is not occurring. And by the way, it's indicative of general ignorance when someone claims that talking about welfare and food stamps is racist, because there are more white non-Hispanics on food stamps than any other race, and whites and blacks are within 1% of each other in the welfare category (Blacks are about 39% and Whites about 38%). Yet more evidence that the real race baiters are the people falsely attacking others for using so-called "code words."

               Look, if you look hard enough and apply the right spin, you can find racism in anything. Just as you can find sexuality or political bias if you look hard enough. My wife has accused me on more than one occasion of thinking way too far into movies and coming up with farfetched examples of Liberal messages hidden in them (hey, it's Hollywood, and it's there if you look for it and add a little spin). It's no different in the hunt for racism. We have to stop this never-ending search for false racism and focus on stomping out the actual racism that occurs in this country. We have to stop falling back on racism when serious debates arise. We have to stop crying wolf on racism when people are rightfully criticized for failing to do their jobs, or for doing their jobs poorly. We have to stop the hypocrisy. One minute it's perfectly acceptable to criticize every move the president and any member of his administration makes, i.e. the Bush years. Then suddenly because we have an African American president, it's considered racist to question or criticize ANYTHING he or members of his administration do. We have got to stop assuming that race is the issue and start addressing real issues that have been raised, like debt, unemployment, taxes and spending. The more we prod people's anger, the more we perpetuate hate and encourage division. We have got to stop looking for things to be divisive about, and start finding things to unify this nation. If we keep insisting that taxing the rich will solve our problems, we are not doing anyone any favors. If we keep pretending that Social Security and Medicare are fine, we are not doing anyone any favors. If we keep sending the message that it's OK to be on welfare or food stamps, then we are not doing anyone any favors. Somehow, we've gotten to the point that it's become acceptable, and even stylish, to accept government assistance. What the hell happened? It absolutely should be looked at as an undesirable, temporary last resort, and not a go to safety net. It's like asking a relative for money (as in a large sum, not ten or twenty bucks). We should feel ashamed to have to ask for money. That shame is one of the things that motivates us to avoid that type of situation. If there is no downside to such things, then why the hell would we avoid it? If no one feels the need to avoid asking for money, then why would they feel the need to dig in and find a way to do things on their own. THAT ladies and gentlemen is the problem with entitlements. It's not a race issue, it's an issue of principles and values. We've stopped teaching people to admire independence and standing on one's own feet. We now teach that everyone gets a trophy, and effort is irrelevant. We teach that there is NOTHING wrong with having to ask for help. That's our problem folks. We have convinced ourselves that it is better to ask for help than to get off our butts and make things happen for ourselves. That is the great tragedy of our time.

               Now, I am not advocating for going out and belittling people or treating people like dirt for taking government assistance. I'm not talking about ridicule from without. I'm talking about ridicule from within. We should be able to look at ourselves and see that we need to be self reliant- to better ourselves and our country. It should be an inner battle that we wage within our own minds and spirits. We should want to be self reliant people, and we should expect the most of ourselves. We should want to stay as far away from government aid as possible, and we should pass judgment only on ourselves for having to accept it. That introspection is a great and powerful force for change. That introspection is what gets us off our butts and back into the game. Never, ever let someone else put you down for the circumstances and choices you have made. Always, always be your own strictest critic, pushing yourself to be better tomorrow than you are today. This distinction is rarely if ever drawn in the dependency/entitlement debate. Embarrassment and ridicule from within yourself is a motivator, while the same sentiments from others is often counterproductive (although in many cases constructive criticism can go a long way). 

               My point here is that advocating self reliance and individual responsibility is not only a good thing, it's what we were founded on. Americans don't need the government to make their way in life. We can do it on our own. That has always been our feelings, and it should remain so. However, if we keep letting people believe that entitlements (by the way, entitlements is one of Chris Matthews' "racist" words, even though it is used by both parties, and all races) are great and everyone should enjoy them, we will lose or innate "Americanness," and it will be damn near impossible to get it back. So, pointing out that more and more people are utilizing welfare and food stamps than four years ago is not racist. Racism is a red herring to draw attention away from a FACT, and a crippling fact at that. Racism is by no means gone, but it will never be gone if we continue to look for it and use it to create fights amongst ourselves where non should exist. If we spent half as much time and effort trying to reform entitlements, make them sustainable and encourage people to succeed on their own as we do charging racism for even uttering the word "entitlements," this country would be in much better shape.

Stay Conservative, and Keep Looking to the Future

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